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1. Constructive criticism & respect
Constructive criticism or disagreement is fine – judgmental and mean comments are not. Comments must be constructive and contribute to conversation. Name calling, abusive comments, idea bashing, or arguing with other posters will not be tolerated. Weddit is also gender & relationship diverse, so please keep that in mind when addressing posts!
All posts must be directly related to your own wedding or your own experiences with weddings and planning. Weddit loves details, so please include so that we can understand the full context of your posts. We particularly encourage you to share location information for any discussion of budget, etiquette, timeline, or other region-influenced topic as this subreddit is world-wide.
3. Text Only Tuesdays
In order to encourage discussion, only text posts are allowed from 12 AM to 11:59 PM EST on Tuesdays. All image/video only posts will be removed. Please feel free to post your pictures and videos - including engagement ring photos- any other day of the week! (Please note videos must be hosted on v.Reddit or Streamable). Photos are still allowed in the Daily Discussion thread so you may post time-sensitive photos there.
4. Hashtag posts go in the weekly thread.
Individual posts asking for help with hashtags are not allowed. Instead please use the weekly hashtag thread that is posted on Thursdays.
5. No memes/funny gif posts: /r/trollxweddings is a better place for these.
6. No bashing posts
We do not allow bashing posts such as "what's a bridal tradition you hate?" or "what decor is overrated?” Weddit is made up of people from all over the world, traditions and values vary widely. Assuming the typical wedding in your area is THE right version of weddings is not acceptable here. It not only isolates and minimizes other Wedditors’ experience, but it is also plain wrong. Treat other weddings as you want yours treated.
7. No “is this tacky” posts
We also do not allow posts asking if something is or is not tacky or rude, like cash bars. These discussions are not productive and the answer is always the same - it depends on region, culture, tradition, religion, etc. You are allowed to express that you personally would find something rude, but it must be in a civil and helpful manner (for example, “this is not common in my area” or “this would not be viewed well in my area”) Comments that say 'this is rude' or 'this is tacky’ are apt to be removed, as there is no one sole arbiter of etiquette.
8. No feedback or vote requests, giveaways, or gofundme links
Feedback requests, vote requests, giveaways, and gofundme links are not permitted here. Any posts of this type will be removed immediately. Please don't use this sub for market research or for free giveaways – even without advertising the business. (Examples of feedback requests that aren't allowed: “I’m a DJ looking for feedback on songs you absolutely want at your wedding”, or “I’m developing a wedding app for X and want your feedback”).
9. No advertising or spam
We will remove comments and posts that self-promote or advertise your business or monetize the subreddit in any way (including pictures or links to your work, affiliate links, referral links, blog posts, or v-logs). If you post it here, it will be deleted and you will be banned. Please note that all coupons, discounts and other such information may only be shared in the daily discussion posts. Vendor AMAs: Please contact the mods first. Please note that you cannot advertise in your AMA, and verification will be done via PM by the mods.
10. Post multiple photos in an album, not as multiple posts
When sharing multiple pictures in a short period of time, please try to post them in an album/in the same post. Repeat or similar posts that do not uniquely contribute to discussion may be removed.
11. Privacy/identifying information
You may include names and faces at your discretion. Addresses must be obscured, and wedding website URLs are not allowed.
12. Don't share Weddit content elsewhere
No sharing other posts, pictures, etc from Weddit to other groups without the express permission of the original poster. Especially do not share to any shaming forums, or in order to be negative about or mock anyone. If you would not be allowed to make the post or comment on Weddit, don't make it somewhere else instead.
13. Use that report button: If you feel a post is in violation of any of the rules, or is inappropriate content, please click the report button underneath the post or comment. Reports are anonymous.
Weekly Post Schedule
All posts are submitted weekly by automoderator at 12:00AM GMT
- ##HASHTAG THURSDAY## : This is a weekly thread for a more collaborative, inclusive approach for giving and receiving feedback for wedding hash tags!
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